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All-or-nothing thinking
Always/Never thinking
Mind-reading
Fortune-telling
REVIEW
Magnification and minimization
Two Areas
Guilt-bearing with”should” statements
“Many clients are experts at
generating a steady stream of
Personalizing
automatic negative thoughts…
Focusing on the negative Many of these negative thoughts
originate from false core beliefs
Emotional reasoning that get programmed into the brain
very early ostensibly for survival.”
Comparative thinking
Labeling
Blaming
A Growth Group (Clinebell p.386)
What is coaching?
Coaching is teaching
Coaching is learning
Cast of Characters
Phil Jackson
Mike Krzyzewski
Michael Gervais
Phil Jackson
Phil Jackson brief resume:
Student of spirituality
Phil Jackson and Oprah
on Meditation
Define mindfulness - building mental strength: focus, one-pointed
attention, but in concert with one another
Not being there for Kobe in Colorado - “I had to reseat myself on that one.”
Phil Jackson and Oprah
on Meditation
“Being authentic, coming from who you are, and what
you think is important.” - Phil Jackson
Phil Jackson’s
mindfulness in practice
Scrimmage without
dribbling - all passing
To wrap up Phil Jackson…
Mindfulness of Intention
Tool 13-1
Explore your true intentions
Setting an intention is a first step in any activity or discipline. In setting an intention we
decide what we intend to pay attention to. Doing so helps us stay focused on a specific
goal or task. In mindfulness, we must set an intention every time we practice. Burdick
p.154
1 Corinthians 8: 2-3
The man who thinks he knows
something does not yet know as
he ought to know. But the man
who loves God is known by
God.
Any thoughts?
Mike Krzyzewski
Mike Krzyzewski’s brief resume
Army-West Point
Mindfulness of Relationships
Tool 10-2
Explore your true intentions
Feeling felt is what happens when we allow our internal state to shift and come to
resonate with the inner world of others… It is also needed throughout life to feel known
by and connected to others.
Burdick p.141
Psalm 133:1,3
How good and pleasant it is
when brothers live together in unity.
It is as if the dew of Hermon
were falling on Mount Zion
For there the Lord bestows his blessing,
Even life forevermore.
Michael Gervais
Michael Gervais’ brief resume
Undergraduate of LMU
Mindfulness = awareness within oneself - how am I engaging and the interplay between the two
(external/internal)
Joining the mindfulness with physical ability dissolves the intensity of the moment
The goal: dissolving the pressure when fully engaged = NO pressure - now you are in the moment
The question: What is the best approach when there is a mistake or when things don’t go well?
Mindful group
Have a philosophy
Mindful individual
Can you refocus in the moment better than you have ever been able to do before?
Michael Gervais’
mindfulness in practice
Greg Z’s mindfulness in
“failing fast” practice
Each coach talks differently about their approach to mindfulness, but what are
the common areas?
Phil Jackson: Center yourself - “It’s about being in the moment, being in
harmony with the moment”
Mike Krzyzewski: Discipline at the time you’re supposed to do it - “If
what you have done yesterday still looks big to you, you haven’t done much
today.”
Michael Gervais: Confidence in any situation - “What is in your control,
let’s invest in that”
Common Ground
Phil Jackson: Reseat yourself - “Your problems never cease. They just
change.”
Mike Krzyzewski: What do we do with our tests - “Confrontation simply
means meeting the truth head-on.”
Michael Gervais: Failing fast - “If you are not present in the alligator pit, you
will suffer for it.”
Common Ground
Phil Jackson: One breath, one mind - “You have to move outside yourself and
think about others to be a successful team.”
Mike Krzyzewski: How can all of us together be one - “Confidence shared is
better than confidence only in yourself.”
Michael Gervais: Trust and let go - “The way other people feel us, that is one
of the ways to measure success - being resonating in a personal way.”
Matthew 5:9
Blessed are the peacemakers,
for they shall be called sons
of God.
For fun - Pastoral counseling in coaching
All-or-nothing thinking
Always/Never thinking
Mind-reading
Fortune-telling REVIEW
Magnification and minimization
Labeling
Blaming
A Growth Group (Clinebell p.386)