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Robertson ne-a dat ca exemplu analogia lui Cato din Utica i anume ca stoicul
este asemenea unui arca care srguincios i plin de ncredere i ascute
sgeata, ntinde arcul i trage, dar odat ce sgeata a zburat din arc trebuie s
accepte c aceasta poate fi deviat sau c inta se poate mica.
Managerii stoici depun eforturi mari s inteasc bine dar trebuie s accepte
ceea ce se ntmpl cu calm.
2. Frica, furia i celelalte emoii sunt alegeri personale, indiferent de
circumstanele exterioare
Cltoria vieii este mai important dect orice scop material deoarece cltoria
este viaa nsi. Atunci cnd te simi prins ntr-un mediu de lucru care i cere un
comportament lipsit de etic, un maestru stoic i-ar spune c este mai bine s
demisionezi dect s stai ntr-un loc care i erodeaz angajamentul fa de
principii.
Liderul stoic face tot ce este n puterile sale dar nu i va compromite principiile n
cutarea unui succes trector.
4. Oamenii care se poart urt nu merit o reac ie emo ional din partea ta
n limbajul de azi, atunci cnd spui cuvntul stoic invoci imaginea unei om rece
i aspru precum Scrooge. Dar n mod ironic, stoicismul poate duce la o mai mare
empatie fa de cei care nu sunt stoici nelegnd c nu sunt suficient de
norocoi pentru a tri o via axat pe principii. O persoan care trateaz un
stoic n mod aspru i ipocrit demonstreaz doar c se comport precum cinele
priponit la cru a lui Cleantes. i pentru c stoicul are controlul complet asupra
rspunsului su la stimulii negativi, el alege s se deta eze emo ional atunci
cnd cineva vrea s se certe cu el.
Pentru stoici, provocarea a fost ntotdeauna s triasc ntr-o societate plin de
oameni care pn la urm ajung s sufere, deoarece pre uiesc lucrurile materiale
sau statutul social, i s nu par indiferen i fa de situa ia lor ingrat, spune
Robertson, care a scris despre legtura existent dintre terapia cognitivcomportamental i stoicism. Majoritatea terapeuilor vd foarte mult suferin
uman autoindus dar trebuie s-i men in o atitudine de n elegere empatic
chair i atunci cnd clienii par a fi cei mai mari dumani ai lor.
Stoicismul este o filosofie determinist, ceea ce nseamn c practican ii ei cred
c fiecare aciune extern este rezultatul incontrolabil al unor circumstan e care
conduc la acea aciune. Aadar, dac o persoan se poart necuviincios e din
cauza a ceva disfuncional din interiorul ei, care declan eaz acel comportament;
i asta este n afara controlului stoicului. Totu i, lucrurile devin complicate n
chestiuni de crim i pedeaps.
Sistemul judiciar ar trebui s trateze infractorii ca i cum ace tia s-ar fi n elat n
mod stupid cu privire la cele mai importante lucruri din via , spune Robertson.
n principal, ar trebui s caute doar s-i reabiliteze i s-i educe sau poate s-i
descurajeze s fac ru, dar nu s-i pedepseasc de dragul rzbunrii, ceea ce
stoicii ar vedea ca pe un rspuns nesbuit i gre it dat celor care comit
nedrepti. Ne face la fel de ri ca i pe ei.
Liderul stoic rmne imperturbabil n fa a abaterilor ira ionale ale celorlal i. El nu
exagereaz iar atunci cnd este jobul lui s ia msuri orice sanc iune pe care o
ia contra autorului caut s remedieze disfunc ia ce st n spatele actului mai
degrab dect s aplice o pedeaps orbe te.
Richard Harris as Roman Emperor Marcus Aurelius in the 2000 blockbuster Gladiator
1. Immediately Recognize What Is Out Of Your Control.
A stoic leader realizes that only his thoughts and intentions are truly within his sphere of
control; everything else is ultimately uncontrollable.
Anyone in a leadership role must come to terms quickly with the paradox of their
position: that leaders must wield power but that often so much that happens lies outside
of their control, Robertson told Forbes. How do we accept the limits of our power
without slumping into passivity?
Robertson said people sometimes confuse stoicism with submissiveness, but calls this a
very superficial misunderstanding. Students of ancient stoicism tended to be sons from
wealthy, cosmopolitan families. Many went on to rule empires or advise great leaders in
commerce and war.
Can you point to a single historical stoic who sat on his hands? quips Robertson, whose
forthcoming book, Stoicism and the Art of Happiness: A Teach Yourself Guide, is due
early next year. Its just not in the nature of their philosophy to be doormats or stay-athome types.
Robertson gave an analogy by Cato of Utica that a stoic is like an archer who diligently
and confidently notches his arrow and draws his bow but must accept that once his arrow
has flown it could be blown off course or its target could move.
Stoic managers take great pains to aim well but must accept what happens with total
equanimity.
2. Fear, Anger And Other Emotions Are Personal Choices, Regardless Of Outer
Circumstances.
studies at Stanford University, where a philosophy professor introduced him to the stoics,
particularly Epictetus.
Epictetus was telling his students that there can be no such thing as being the victim of
another, Stockdale later wrote. You can only be a victim of yourself. Its all in how
you discipline your mind.
A stoic manager understands that no matter what chaotic circumstances surround her, she
has total power over her own emotions and the richness of her inner life.
3. Live A Life Centered On Principles, Not Wealth, Awards, Family or Power.
For a stoic leader, the ends do not justify the means. Stoic leaders hunger for and build
their lives around four cardinal virtues: wisdom, courage, temperance and justice. If a
leader builds his life around anything elsea central theme in business guru Stephen R.
Coveys 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People he could be disappointed because
everything except these virtues is ephemeral.
Its difficult to practice these values in rough-and-tumble marketplaces like Wall Street
and Silicon Valley. But a stoic businessman recognizes that if his ambition is tethered to
anything but the cardinal virtues, hes in the words of stoic Cleanthes, like a dog tied to
a cart, and compelled to go wherever it goes.
This doesnt mean that stoics dont enjoy pleasurable things like acclaim, love and
monetary success; it means that they prefer them, but they dont require them to be
happy. A true philosopher, in the words of Crates of Thebes, is one whos looking on
generals and donkey-drivers in the same light.
The journey of life is more important than any material goal because the journey is life. If
you feel trapped in a work environment that demands unethical behavior, a stoic guru
would advise, its better to quit than stay in a place that erodes your commitment to
principle.
A stoic leader does everything in her power to succeed but will not compromise her
principles in pursuit of fleeting success.
4. People Who Misbehave Do Not Deserve An Emotional Reaction From You.
In todays lexicon, say the word stoic and youll conjure up images of a cold, harsh
Scrooge-like figure. But ironically, stoicism can lead to even greater empathy for others
who arent stoic because theyre not fortunate enough to live a principle-centered life.
Someone who treats a stoic unkindly or deviously is merely demonstrating that he or she
is behaving like one of Cleanthes tethered creatures. And since a stoic has complete
control over his response to a negative stimulus, he chooses to emotionally disengage
when someone picks a fight.
The challenge for stoics has always been to live in a society full of people who
ultimately suffer because they value material things or social status, without seeming
unsympathetic to their plight, says Robertson, whos written on the connection between
modern cognitive behavioral therapy and stoicism. Most modern therapists see a great
deal of self-inflicted human suffering but have to maintain an attitude of empathic
understanding, even when their clients appear to be their own worst enemies.
Stoicism is a deterministic philosophy, which means its practitioners believe that every
external action is the uncontrollable result of circumstances leading up to that action. So
if a person behaves rudely its because of something dysfunctional inside them that
triggers that behavior; this is out of the stoics control. However, things get dicey in
questions of crime and punishment.
A criminal justice system should treat criminals as if theyre foolishly mistaken about
the most important things in life, Robertson says. It should seek mainly to rehabilitate
and educate them, or perhaps to deter them, but not to punish for the sake of retribution,
which the Stoics would see as a foolish and vicious response to those who commit
wrongs. It makes us as bad as them.
A stoic leader remains unflappable in the face of others irrational misdeeds. He does not
overreact, and if its his job, any punitive action he takes against a perpetrator seeks to
remedy dysfunction behind the misdeed rather than meting out blind punishment.
5. Meditate Daily To Revive Your Commitment To A Principle-Centered Life
Each days a fresh start, and a stoic clears his mind through reading or pondering stoic
thought, a process that some call cognitive hygiene, or catharsis. Each morning this
rejuvenates and reminds him of stoic principles. Each night it helps him identify mistakes
and feel healthy pride in worthy accomplishments.
Whats fascinating about this new push to revive stoicism from the dusts of antiquity is
that it wrenches stoicism from theoretical realms into the real world. Its by design, since
Epictetus and other stoic sages taught that philosophy is a way of life, not just an
academic exercise.
In his book, Philosophy for Life and Other Dangerous Situations, British writer Julian
Evans compiled interviews with prominent modern-day stoics that add flesh and blood to
these lofty ideals. And organizers of Stoic Week, including Evans and professors at the
University of Exeter, some three hours southwest of London, encouraged their more than
2,000 participants to live like a Stoic for a week. They created recordings of
meditations and a 38-page handbook on how to do this.
Emperor Aurelius visualized a stoic as boxer, not fencer. The fencers weapon is picked
up and put down again. The boxers is part of him. All he has to do is clench his fist.
Stoicism doesnt require pomp and circumstance, so it can be practiced quickly and
simply. Through daily practice it develops men and women whose mental defenses are
self-sufficient and instinctual.