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1 are actively trying to hear what the speaker is saying- Active Listeners
2 tend to be more logical listeners, who are more concerned about content than
feelings
3 tend to remain emotionally detached from the conversation
4 do well in “parroting back” the words others have just delivered
5 totally ignore that part of the message that is carried in the speaker’s vocal
intonation, body language, and facial expressions
6 are great in semantics, facts and statistics, but poor in sensitivity, empathy and
true understanding
7 believe that they understand others, but the speaker does not feel understood
1 încearcă în mod activ să audă ce spune vorbitorul
2 tind să fie ascultători mai logici, care sunt mai preocupați de conținut decât de
sentimente
3 tind să rămână detașați emoțional de conversație
4 se descurcă bine în „apăsând” cuvintele pe care ceilalți tocmai le-au rostit
5 ignoră total acea parte a mesajului care este transmisă în intonația vocală, limbajul
corpului și expresiile faciale ale vorbitorului
6 sunt grozavi în semantică, fapte și statistici, dar slabi în sensibilitate, empatie și
înțelegere adevărată
7 cred că îi înțeleg pe alții, dar vorbitorul nu se simte înțeles
think about unrelated matters - Non-Listeners
do not hear others at all
are primarily concerned with doing most of the
speaking
manifest blank stares
manifest nervous mannerisms and gestures
fake attention while thinking about unrelated matters
are constantly interrupting
must always have the last word
are too busy preparing what to say next to listen to
what is being said to them now
are rarely interested in what anyone else has to say
are perceived as a social bore and know-it-all
are hearing the sounds and words, but not – Marginal Listeners
really listening
are superficial listeners
stay on the surface of the argument or problem, never risking going
deeper
selectively look for outside distractions so
that they have an excuse to draw them away
from the conversation
prefer to evade difficult or technical presentations and discussions
tend to listen only to the facts, rather than the
main ideas
Ex 4 Very often in life people feel the need to be listened to when they
have an issue or problem. Recall a situation like that. How did you act
when the person approached you?
Sometimes people find themselves in such situations when I want to
express their thoughts, but no one listens to them. I also found myself in
such a situation. I was with friends on a birthday, everyone was talking
about sad memories that caused any negative feelings, and here I try to
intervene in this conversation, I start saying pleasant memories when
we were all small and we played in restaurants with money from leaves.
When I started telling this memory for 5 seconds, my friends looked at
me, but only for 5 seconds, because everyone was thoughtful at
negative moments, they didn't listen to me at all. The situation was not
very pleasant, but I took it in my hands and I understood that they
simply wanted a little to feel miserable.